] There’s so much about you, as an older man, that she is likely to be interested in.
Using these tips, make the most of who you are, and wow her with your superior skills of seduction.
There may be a temptation for some older guys, with their wealth of experience and knowledge, to see themselves as superior to the girl they are trying to woo.
They will prattle on about themselves incessantly, until the woman they admire is ready to jump out of the nearest window in a last-ditch effort to escape.
A conversation should be a two-way street with attempts to solicit information from the other person, and it should involve as much listening as talking–if not more. His levels of empathy and patience have strengthened over time and will prove an invaluable tool in any attempt to woo the object of one’s desires.
The fact is, you’ll never quite get it right, and you’ll probably just end up looking like some former 70s disco legend. However, you’ll never compete with a younger man on that score, and to be perfectly honest, that isn’t what she wants from you, anyway.
She’s hoping for the benefit of years of experience and the sensitivity it imparts… [Read: When do age differences matter in relationships?
If he lasts more than the time it takes to cook an egg in his selfish efforts to reach a boiling point, then the woman can count herself lucky.
The older male, however, knows exactly what his hands, fingers, lips, and tongue are for, and knows when to use them.
It’s every older guy’s dream to have a young, beautiful little thing hanging off his arm on the way to dinner or another social function.
But inter-generational relationships can be fraught with dangers, and most of these dangers come squarely down to one reason: poor management of expectations.
In terms of May-December romances, there's been a longtime double standard when it comes to which half of the couple is "December": Women who date younger men encounter fascinated curiosity, judgment, and even a loaded nickname that rose to prominence in the early 2000's, while men in relationships with younger women are simply known as..in relationships.