If it's meant to be special eventually, you'll be the first one to know.
After all, you are entitled to find your happiness, and in no event should you ever compromise in that department.
Considering that this guy is out fresh from his divorce, his ex-wife may consistently figure in his conversations, or she may be omitted completely.
Watch out for these signs, and bolt at their earliest appearance.
The bottom line here, would be to proceed with caution.
To begin with, it would be unfair to expect something long-term from a man who's just turned single, possibly after a long time.
A sound piece of advice would be to take each day as it comes, and not rush into anything, even if it feels like heaven every time you are together.He may be in a phase where he just wants to vent out his resentment towards relationships or wants to enjoy his new-found freedom.In both cases, you need to steer clear of being the unfortunate victim of his circumstances.That was my first mistake, especially since I hadn't been in the dating game since Tinder even existed. He also said his mind was made up and he'd moved on. We connected and spent a few hours sipping beer and chatting. Him: married, seperated from the woman he had been with for more than eight years, with whom he shared a son. He also loved making plans that he had no intention of following through on. Maybe it was the night that he texted me, "Home with the ex and baby tonight. It was the way I wondered if they were sharing a bed. It's safe to assume that most people can present themselves in a way that looks normal on Tinder. We then went out with friends, which was followed by beer and then going home. Me: slogging forward while missing my life in Oregon. In that twisted way, I started to fall for him, despite everything I knew about him. I wanted to move forward without being hung up on my last relationship. I expected it to be easy, and I wanted him to help me get over my ex. Side chick status until tomorrow." Maybe it was the way we crossed into territory when he said they weren't sleeping together anymore (although he was spending some nights at the house.) Maybe it was when I blushed at the thought of him. Maybe it was the way he was with his son that made me love him. It was the way I knew he was lying to me about how their relationship really was, because we all know that things are more complicated than they appear. Your man may prioritize re-stabilizing his accounts over your nurturing relationship, and there is a possibility of you being left in the lurch. Since this man has just gotten out of a serious relationship, he may want to play the field or (re)sow some wild oats.