There isn't a lot that you can do about the sound of your voice, but you can certainly control the pitch, the speed in which you talk and the tone of voice that you use.
I’ve noticed this about the best women (IMO) that I have met - - - they simply were not in the market, while their kids were still at home.
It could be “You want what you can’t have,” but I doubt it. My kids were awesome enough, and being around as they grew up eliminated any neediness I might have had. The old-fashioned way worked best: get out, meet people, and if there’s someone out there you already know, and like (and is available) ask her (or him!
I discovered that the most enjoyable dates I went on, and those that turned into repeat dates . They were local, we had mutual friends, were convenient to meet up with, and in a couple cases .
We rarely take the opportunity to thank you for creating such a great site.
Additionally, women will want to be with a guy who seems in control, so keeping the speed at a normal level is also quite important.
You also don't want to use any tone that will appear to be condescending or rude.
So this is one of those rare moments I guess where I say, "thanks!
" It's a great little 'community' of members with a really good balance.
You will probably want to take a little time before jumping into the casual dating scene to orient your way through.