Then you start to wonder about your date’s drinking, you always seem to meet in bars and a lot of alcohol is consumed.
While it may be fun now, it is getting worrying...will it slow down. It is no fun to be involved in a relationship with an alcoholic.
The serial dater was the one who looked after the alcoholic in their family.
Therefore from an early age they learned to take care of people. This behavior is then taken into adult life and the individual is constantly looking after addicts to 'take care of'.
But we do not live in an ideal world and many people fall for alcoholics.
It can be very hard, especially at the beginning of a relationship,to leave someone you really care for, even love because he/she has a drinking problem.
You cannot change another person unless they want to change.
Trying to help an unwilling alcoholic will only enable them to fall further into their alcoholic abyss.your 12 Step Program of Recovery, we have THOUSANDS OF CLEAN AND SOBER SINGLES and Recovering Friends in ALL 12 Step Programs of Recovery, for sober dating and hoping to meet you!Search by Country, State, City or zip code and then narrow down your search further to your own 12 Step Program.All you can do is inform them about alcoholism (why not direct them to the alcoholism guide), tell them how you feel about their drinking and then let them do what they will with the information.There are men and women who always seem to choose a partner who has issues with alcohol.If you think you might be a serial dater of alcoholics then it is important to get counseling or therapy.